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What is Your Body Telling Everyone?

You can learn a lot about a person just by watching them – simple movements

How they walk-
How they look at you- 
How they hold their body – what are they thinking?

How can you tell if someone likes you? How can you tell if that someone you really want to be with wants to be with you? These can be tough questions to some people, but if you are a ‘people’ watcher, you may be able to tell more. So, do you wonder who is watching you and what your body is saying?

The tone of voice of a speaker will let you know what kind of mood they are in – is it a flat tone, or a tone that is genuinely wanting to express an interest to you. There is a multitude of voice tones one person can use. Some tones you will learn from each mate and / or date you encounter over your life.

The Eyes Have It

When you are talking to some one and you see their eyes moving back and forth searching for something – this means the person is making thinking about what to talk about and thinking things up as they are talking. If their eyes are moving up and to the right – they are really trying to recall something from their memory. If a persons eyes are up and to the left it means that a person is really making the conversation up as it goes along – ‘pretending’ to know what they are talking about. If you want to learn one thing about body language and eyes – it is that it is all so important to make eye contact during a conversation. Eye contact is essential in touching the inner person of the person you are talking to. 

A person that will look you in the eye is generally considered an honest person. Willing to face you head on, and you know they are willing to make that ‘contact’ with you. However, what about that ‘special’ look, you know when you see it. It is not a stare – it is a look of genuine interest and wanting to understand you more. Of course, at one time or another we have all been caught staring at someone we wanted, or wanted to know more about. While it can be embarrassing to be caught, sometimes this leads to both people realizing that the other wants you just as much as you want them. The question here is if you are staring, do you want to be caught. Each individual can only answer that.

Dilated Eyes 

Eye get bigger when you're excited. If someone's eyes look really big, it shows interest. 

Body Expressions

There will be good signs and bad signs when using body language, you just need to learn what others may be telling you with out talking. Inner feelings take over your body, which will lead to unconscious movements of your body – which other people may pick up if they are attentive. Know what you want to say, and how to say it with your body as well as your voice when you want to flirt with that some one special. 

Batting of the eyes – while generally women will not admit to this, when a women wants to flirt, or gain your attention more in depth, the eyes will bat.

Adjusting the clothes – while many do not even notice, when a person adjusts their clothes they are worried about how the other perceives them and sees them in these clothes, are they attractive, should they have worn something else. Signs that someone is interested in what you think about him or her and their appearance. 

If someone puts their hand to their mouth, this is a sign they are not at ease in the conversation.

When a person puts their hands on their hips or across their chest, this is a combative stance, they are on the defense, or do not agree with you.

Listening - when someone leans forward with direct eye contact, they are listening attentively. If they lean back or away from you, there attention is somewhere else. 

Watching what a person is saying while you are listening to them will give you inside tips to more than just the adjectives that they are using while talking. You will be able to notice whether they are truly interested in you or are just passing the time having conversation with you. Do you know if someone just wants to be your friend or do they want more – listen up with your eyes and you may be surprised. If you are getting the eye movements and the gestures that suggest that someone is sending your signals but that is all you are getting – you are being teased. Using body language when flirting can be a definite turn on when you are wanting to ‘get to know’ some one better. 

Use your body to express your ‘yes’ or ‘no’ in a person’s interest in you. While you may try to let them down nicely in a firm tone of voice, you will have to double the expression and cross your arms to ‘appear’ to be on the defensive as well.

Anger - person frowns, or eyebrows are brought together.