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Power of day
dreaming
Einstein indulged in
mathematical daydreaming for years before he evolved the theory of
relativity or the splitting of the atom. Goethe's dreamt of digging a
canal across the isthmus of panama long before it could even be built.
Wright dreamt of flying machines, which were heavier than air. Edison
invented the electrical possibilities before he invented the electric
bulb.
Yes these daydreamers were
different. As individuals they decided to convert their daydreams into
realities by taking steps towards that end. They did not wish to day-dream
for the sake of day-dreaming alone.
There are two types of day
dreamers- those who are positive and the negative one. The latter do not
take steps to fulfill their wishes. Rather they go on dreaming of miracles
and a solution to their problems, hoping that they would get realized on
their own one day.
Daydreaming is essentially a flight from reality, an escape into a land of
make-believe. Probably that black name, since many failures in life too
are traced to day-dreaming.
A positive daydreamer may
and frequently does escape from the reality by temporarily identifying
himself with or sharing the emotional experience involved in watching a
movie on TV, reading a fascinating novel or just leading back in an
armchair and letting his thoughts run wild.
He comes back to reality
soon enough, turns off the TV, lays aside the novel, gets out of his chair
and goes back to his work. The chronic day-dreamer, however, is never done
with his dreaming. The lullaby goes on indefinitely, soothing, holding
back the reality.
And no sooner is one dream
over, and then he switches on to another because reality bruises him. In
his daydreams he is the champion of champions.
The power to daydream is a
gift from nature or God. It is the misuse of daydreaming that result in
continued frustration and failure. Knowing this you can convert your
day-dream into reality.
How?
First become aware of that daydream that keeps on recurring. Next time, it
reappears grab it by the ears, look into its eyes, examine its teeth,
analyze it. If the day-dream is too big or too far beyond your capacity as
of now, try to break it down into parts, some of which are within your
grasp. Then switch on your thought and planning to the attainment of the
possible.
Take for instance your
dream to become a millionaire. Take positive action to acquire the first
hundred and then the first thousand and so on.
Be clear about the dream
you want to fulfill, if you have a basketful of them. Don’t just fan
yourself into fantasies. Take the case of a young man from a backward part
of the state of Rajasthan. He had no money but a determination to make
good in life. He sold black gram on the
pavements of a Calcutta street, after which he rose from one business to
another. He became a millionaire in his own lifetime. He was the first
Birla, whose progeny now controls one of the biggest industrial empires in
the country. Daydreaming is simply imagination running wild like a wild
horse in the pasture. Rope that wild horse, harness it and you have a
tremendous power at hand. That is how people create new products, lay
groundwork for constructive changes, and acquire the riches that life has
to offer.
If you are one of those persons with whom day-dreaming has become a habit,
become aware of it. Determine to half each dream as it floats into your
mind and examine it to see if it holds any possibility of getting
realized. If not, chase it out. You can view only one dream in your mind
at one time, shoo the fantasies away. Substitute them with positive steps
that can lead towards solving problems you are facing today.
And should futile
fantasies in the shape of far-fetched daydreams return, tell them, kindly
or indignantly if you prefer, to leave you as you are too busy thinking
about important matters. Make them unwelcome.
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